Sitting and typing at my laptop in the kitchen I suddenly realize that I can hear loud music. As its nothing usual I look out of window, and find out that on the roof next to ours are finishing preparations for a wedding celebration.
Now I am sitting on our rooftop and watching the wedding from a distance of cca 8 metres and will live update You what is going on
First You should get the picture of the stageset of this litle “drama”. The floor of the roof is covered with red carpet, tent walls are around the whole roof to ensure privacy (luckily not on my side), small tent with food and tables with barbeque are in the corner and in a central position a small stage. Everything looks like You would imagine based on the Arabic nights fairytales (except of lightbulbs instead of candles and camera guys shooting it all on tape).
First the women, dressed in colourful clothes, welcome the family of groom and bride with throwing rose leafs on their heads. Then all the women take a seat and in the simple of tympan and clapping they half sing – half recite… blesings? (I still dont speak Urdu
) This takes time untill the whole family doesnt meet (which with Pakistani punctuality took an hour).
Then the bride, covered from head till toes, sheltered by four girls holding a colourful fabric above her head, each by one corner, accompany her to the stage. Her mother joins her and waiting continues. After a while mother leaves and the groom is brought to take place next to the brides side.

You should know that this moment, its only females present. The only males are the servants prepairing the festivity and children.
After an another half an hour (while the couple still sits on the stage) the men came and after a while the “man of the house” takes some food. After him all the men come and fill their plates (no surprise, its already 2 am). In the meanwhile girls do “guards” at the brides side, they change every few minutes. After all the men have, the women take food. After all the guests have taken part in the festivity, the couple is allowed to come down from the stage. At this moment also the servants are allowed to take food.
During these festivities I have lost the track of the couple, it might be that they have dissappeared for a time, but I noticed them only after a longer while. They were mingeling among the guests, bride was allowed to take her face cover off… The couple was not hanging much together, each socializing with different guests.
After the wedding night gets a little bit boring, a good old family quarrel comes handy… It looks/sounds like flock of chickens anoying a cock, a man among a group of angry talking women.
3 a.m., guests are leaving, the bags for gifts for the new couple are put (partly full) aside, party is over. The city spoils the people, I strongly believe that the wedding festivity the traditional style is more fun…
4 a.m., I go to sleep and post this, the servants and hired hands, are alrady for half an hour tidyng the roof, no visible result except of lot of talking and finishing leftovers… no need to hurry
Here are some pics I have taken, first: I know it looks like a stage in theatre, You will have to trust me that is really a roof and real people…
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